The Faithfulness of Christ

I was honored to preach this sermon at Living Hope Community Church on February 9, 2025.

The dictionary defines “faithful” as “loyal and steadfast”, “reliable”, “steadfast in allegiance”, “remaining true, constant, unwavering”.

When I look at your heavens, the work of your fingers, the moon and the stars that you have established; what are humans that you are mindful of them, mortals that you care for them?

-Psalm 8:3-4

The heavens are telling the glory of God, and the firmament proclaims his handiwork. Day to day pours forth speech, and night to night declares knowledge.

Psalm 19:1-2

What is this knowledge that the heavens declares? Consider, for a moment, the stars, the moon, and the planets. Set in their orbits by God, moving on the course that God ordained, at the speed God ordained, never changing.

Century after century, millennium after millennium, the heavenly bodies do not change. Such that, by observing the speed and orbit of a planet, we can calculate exactly where that planet will be at any moment, even a moment 100 years from now, and at that moment, it will be precisely there.

From time immemorial, humans have admired the perfection of the heavens. The phases of the moon, century after century, so faithful to happen on schedule, that you can mark your calendar by them. The rising and setting of the sun, so faithful to happen on schedule, that you can set your clock by it. The movements of the stars, so faithful to never change, that a ship can navigate across the ocean by them.

No planet ever decides “you know, I’ve been following the same orbit for thousands of years, but I’m feeling naughty today… might just veer off course, not sure.”

If they did, the heavens would be a chaotic place, endangering life on earth.

What is this speech that the heavens pour out? What is this knowledge that they impart?

Perhaps it is this message: that faithfulness to God’s will produces order, peace, and harmony. In contrast, disobedience to God’s will produces chaos, disorder, conflict, and strife.

Of course, planets are just large rocks. They don’t have a will of their own. They can’t choose to obey or disobey. They just move according to how God put them in motion, and that’s it.

We, on the other hand, are free will beings. Our earliest ancestors, Adam and Eve, had a choice to make in the Garden of Eden – a choice to be faithful to God, or not. Likewise, every human being thereafter has also faced that same choice. Our faithfulness to God’s design can produce – like the heavens – peace, order, and harmony. Or, our disobedience can produce chaos, disorder, and strife, and we’ve seen the effects of that throughout the earth.

Every human has faced this choice. Every human has been tempted to disobey God, and has had to make a free will choice, whether to be faithful or not.

Now, some think that Jesus was an exception to this rule. He wasn’t really tempted, was he?

Well, the Bible says in Hebrews 4:15, NASB:

…we do not have a high priest who cannot sympathize with our weaknesses, but One who has been tempted in all things just as we are, yet without sin.

-Hebrews 4:15 NASB

In other words, Jesus faced all of the same temptations we face, yet, somehow, he remained faithful to his Father through all of them. So, do you think there is something we can learn from Jesus’ example? I think so. So let’s start at the beginning, the very first record where his faithfulness is manifest.

Luke chapter 2, beginning in verse 41. Now, in this record, Jesus is still a small child. He’s not even grown up yet. Yet, even early in his life, his unwavering faithfulness is evident.

Now every year his parents went to Jerusalem for the festival of the Passover. And when he was twelve years old, they went up as usual for the festival. When the festival was ended and they started to return, the boy Jesus stayed behind in Jerusalem, but his parents were unaware of this. Assuming that he was in the group of travelers, they went a day’s journey. Then they started to look for him among their relatives and friends. When they did not find him, they returned to Jerusalem to search for him.

-Luke 2:41-45

Now, lest you think that Mary and Joseph were bad parents, let’s understand something about the historical context. Travel in the ancient world was extremely dangerous. There was constant threat of ambush from bandits. We see this in the parable of the Good Samaritan. There was the threat of wild animals, including poisonous snakes. And, although the Romans had improved the quality of roads by this time, road quality was still poor in many places, and the availability of inns or taverns was unpredictable. Travelers would sometimes need to sleep outside, possibly exposing them to storms or unpredictable weather.

So, there were many dangers in the ancient world. And for this reason, when going on a long journey, it was advisable to travel in a large group. There’s safety in numbers. So, in this case, there was a large group of pilgrims travelling together. And these folks aren’t strangers. They’re identified here as the friends and relatives of Mary and Joseph. So Mary and Joseph don’t need to keep eyes on the boy Jesus 24/7. He’s mingling throughout the group, and lots of other relatives and friends are watching him. So you can totally see a scenario happening, where it’s like, “Hey, have you seen Jesus?” “What? I thought he was with you?” “Huh? I thought he was with you!” And all of a sudden he’s missing, and they have to go back and find him.

After three days they found him in the temple, sitting among the teachers, listening to them and asking them questions. And all who heard him were amazed at his understanding and his answers. When his parents saw him they were astonished, and his mother said to him, “Child, why have you treated us like this? Your father and I have been anxiously looking for you.” He said to them, “Why were you searching for me? Did you not know that I must be in my Father’s house?” But they did not understand what he said to them. Then he went down with them and came to Nazareth and was obedient to them, and his mother treasured all these things in her heart. And Jesus increased in wisdom and in years and in divine and human favor.

-Luke 2:46-52

“I must be in my Father’s house.”

The King James Version says, “I must be about my Father’s business.”

Another translation says, “I must be doing the works of my Father.”

Jesus said in John 6:38, “I came… not to do my own will but the will of him who sent me.”

Are you about the Father’s business?

Or are you so busy with your own schedule and your own appointment that you miss a divine appointment?

God is always working. He invites us to join him in his work. His business. Ask God to show you where he is working. He will. Ask God to give you the words to speak to others. He will.

See, God has work for you to do! Did you know the Christian life involves work? We don’t just hunker down and wait for Jesus to come back. There’s work to do!

We’re not saved by works, but we are saved for works.

…we are what he made us, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand so that we may walk in them.

-Ephesians 2:10

As Christians, we don’t choose the works we do. God chooses. He already prepared the work ahead of time, and he invites you to join him in it. It’s his business. It’s not your business.

What is the work that God is doing, that he invites us to join him in?

Ultimately, God is at work in the world, to repair the world. God is working to repair the brokenness that our sin has caused in the world. The work won’t be completed until Christ returns. Nevertheless, God is working now, to advance his kingdom purposes now, bringing salvation, healing, hope, love, and peace to many.

Jesus’ life perfectly exemplifies this. Constantly, he would be on his way to a certain place, but then God would put someone in his path who needed help – who needed healing – and Jesus would stop what he was doing, and would minister to that person. He wasn’t so wrapped up in his own plans and his own schedule that he missed the opportunity. He was always tuned in to what his Father was doing, and joining his Father in his work.

Jesus said in John 5:30, “I can do nothing on my own. As I hear, I judge, and my judgment is just because I seek to do not my own will but the will of him who sent me.”

And in John 8:28-29, Jesus said, “When you have lifted up the Son of Man, then you will realize that I am he and that I do nothing on my own, but I speak these things as the Father instructed me. And the one who sent me is with me; he has not left me alone, for I always do what is pleasing to him.”

And in John 14:31, Jesus said, “I do as the Father has commanded me, so that the world may know that I love the Father.

Faithfulness.

What’s striking to me in these verses is the humility of Christ. Always glorifying the Father. Always exalting the Father and not himself.

Humility is the key to faithfulness. Without humility, you’re not gonna be faithful. Humility is required. It’s the starting point.

This is the first main point of my message, and probably the most important, so if you get one thing from my message today, get this:

The Christian life is not about you. It’s about God. It’s about the work that God is doing, and joining him in his work. We must be about our Father’s business. This requires humility.

There is perhaps no greater contrast in the Bible than the contrast between the disobedience and fall of Adam, and the faithfulness, humility, and obedience of the second Adam, Jesus Christ.

Both were tempted by Satan! One, went his own way. The other, was faithful to be about his Father’s business.

Turn a few pages forward to Luke chapter 4.

Jesus, full of the Holy Spirit, returned from the Jordan and was led by the Spirit in the wilderness, where for forty days he was tested by the devil. He ate nothing at all during those days, and when they were over he was famished. The devil said to him, “If you are the Son of God, command this stone to become a loaf of bread.” Jesus answered him, “It is written, ‘One does not live by bread alone.’ ”

-Luke 4:1-4

In Matthew’s gospel, Jesus adds these words: “One does not live by bread alone, but by every word that comes from the mouth of God.’”

In John 4:34, Jesus says this: “My food is to do the will of him who sent me and to complete his work.”

My food. Faithfulness to the Father is what sustained him.

Consider how powerful that is.

Faithfulness to his Father sustained him.

Continuing the story in Luke 4:5-8…

Then the devil led him up and showed him in an instant all the kingdoms of the world. And the devil said to him, “To you I will give all this authority and their glory, for it has been given over to me, and I give it to anyone I please. If you, then, will worship me, it will all be yours.” Jesus answered him, “It is written, ‘Worship the Lord your God, and serve only him.’ ”

-Luke 4:5-8

Here is Jesus, born to be the king of kings, prophesied to be the ruler of the world forever, “the government shall be upon his shoulders” (Isaiah 9:6) “and of his kingdom there shall be no end” (Luke 1:33) but he knew he would first need to endure the cross, to be the atoning sacrifice for our sins, to bleed out, to suffer, to die, to give up everything to pay the price for our salvation. Jesus knew what he had to do. It was written in Isaiah 53. Jesus knew the cross came first, then the kingdom.

But here, the devil was offering to give Jesus the kingdom without the cross! How great this temptation must have been!

But Jesus remained faithful to the will of the Father. “Worship the Lord your God, and serve only him.”

Faithfulness.

Jesus resisted temptation. He defeated the devil. He stayed faithful to his Father.

Every. Single. Time.

Jesus’ life was an adventure of faithfulness.

Time after time, Jesus was faithful to whatever the Father wanted him to do.

He was faithful to be baptized to fulfill the law.

Faithful to turn water into wine.

Faithful to proclaim the gospel of the kingdom to the woman at the well.

Faithful to preach the gospel of the kingdom throughout Galilee.

Faithful to heal the son of a royal official.

Faithful to teach in the synagogue.

Faithful to heal a lame man on the Sabbath.

Faithful to call 12 apostles.

Faithful to heal a demon possessed man.

Faithful to heal Peter’s mother in law.

Faithful to heal a leper.

Faithful to heal a paralytic.

Faithful to preach the Sermon on the Mount.

Faithful to heal a centurion’s servant.

Faithful to raise a widow’s son from the dead.

Faithful to heal a blind man.

Faithful to teach in parables.

Faithful to calm a storm.

Faithful to heal a man living among the tombs.

Faithful to heal a woman with an issue of blood.

Faithful to heal Jairus’ daughter.

Faithful to heal two blind men.

Faithful to feed five thousand people.

Faithful to walk on water.

Faithful to heal a Canaanite woman.

Faithful to heal a deaf man.

Faithful to feed four thousand people.

Faithful to perform the Transfiguration.

Faithful to refuse to destroy a Samaritan village when his disciples wanted to destroy it.

Faithful to send out the 70 to preach and teach.

Faithful to heal a woman with a crooked back.

Faithful to weep over Jerusalem.

Faithful to raise Lazarus from the dead.

Faithful to heal 10 lepers.

Faithful to welcome little children.

Faithful to dine with Zacchaeus.

Faithful to be anointed for burial.

Faithful to enter Jerusalem on a donkey.

Faithful to curse a fig tree.

Faithful to cleanse the temple and overturn the tables of the money changers.

Faithful to wash his disciples’ feet.

Faithful to institute communion.

Faithful to sing a hymn with his disciples.

Faithful to surrender to the Father’s will in the Garden of Gethsemane.

Faithful to heal Malchus’ ear.

Faithful to endure the trials and beatings and mockery and crucifixion of his Passion.

Faithful to welcome the thief on the cross into the kingdom.

Faithful to forgive those who cruficied him.

Faithful to appear to Mary Magdalene in the garden.

Faithful to appear to two other disciples on the road to Emmaus.

Faithful to appear to the other apostles.

Faithful to encourage the doubting Thomas.

Faithful to reinstate Peter.

Faithful to give the Great Commission.

Faithful to ascend into heaven.

Faithful to you and me today, working in and through us by the power of the Holy Spirit, actively working as the head of the church, guiding, directing, teaching, and encouraging us day by day.

Faithful.

The life of Christ is a picture of perfect faithfulness.

And what an adventure the life of Christ is!

The Christian life is always an adventure.

What adventure could possibly be greater than joining God in work that has eternal significance – the salvation of someone’s soul?

There is no greater adventure than the Christian life.

Anyone who is faithful to join God in the work God is going, is bound for adventure.

Because, when you join God in his work, he takes you to surprising places.

I’m convinced that God has a sense of humor.

Sometimes, you can’t see what God is doing, but you’re faithful anyway, and then God reveals how he was working all along, and you just laugh. “Oh, God, that’s what you were doing! That’s why you put that person in my path! That’s why I had to go through that! I see it now!”

Such joy!

Humble yourself and go where God is leading. Trust him.

Jesus humbled himself, and was always faithful to the Father’s will.

…he humbled himself and became obedient to the point of death— even death on a cross.

-Philippians 2:8b

Turn forward to Luke chapter 22.

He came out and went, as was his custom, to the Mount of Olives, and the disciples followed him. When he reached the place, he said to them, “Pray that you may not come into the time of trial.” Then he withdrew from them about a stone’s throw, knelt down, and prayed, “Father, if you are willing, remove this cup from me, yet not my will but yours be done.”

-Luke 22:39-42

What is the “cup” Jesus speaks of? The “cup” represents his suffering, his death, his crucifixion. Jesus is saying, “God, if there’s any other way, if it’s at all possible, remove this cup…. BUT not my will, but yours be done.”

Faithfulness.

Then an angel from heaven appeared to him and gave him strength. In his anguish he prayed more earnestly, and his sweat became like great drops of blood falling down on the ground. When he got up from prayer, he came to the disciples and found them sleeping because of grief, and he said to them, “Why are you sleeping? Get up and pray that you may not come into the time of trial.”

-Luke 22:43-46

The Christian life is an adventure. But the Christian life isn’t easy. It’s hard.

Faithfulness to God requires sacrifice.

For he has graciously granted you the privilege not only of believing in Christ but of suffering for him as well.

-Philippians 1:29

Discipline yourselves; keep alert. Like a roaring lion your adversary the devil prowls around, looking for someone to devour. Resist him, steadfast in your faith, for you know that your brothers and sisters in all the world are undergoing the same kinds of suffering.

-1 Peter 5:8-9

Jesus didn’t promise that the Christian life would be easy. Actually, he promised that there would be suffering.

I have told you these things so that in Me you may have peace. You will have suffering in this world. Be courageous! I have conquered the world.

-John 16:33 CSB

When you’re faithful to God, there’s joy in the suffering.

My brothers and sisters, whenever you face various trials, consider it all joy, because you know that the testing of your faith produces endurance. And let endurance complete its work, so that you may be complete and whole, lacking in nothing.

-James 1:2-4

For our slight, momentary affliction is producing for us an eternal weight of glory beyond all measure

-2 Corinthians 4:17

I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worth comparing with the glory about to be revealed to us.

-Romans 8:18

The Christian life has suffering. But there’s joy in the suffering.

Turn to 1 Peter 4, verses 12 through 16.

1 Peter 4 talks about suffering as a Christian, reassuring us that when we suffer for the sake of Christ, our suffering is not in vain. The disciples rejoiced when they suffered, because they knew that their faithfulness to God, even though there was suffering involved, was producing something of far greater value.

Beloved, do not be surprised at the fiery ordeal that is taking place among you to test you, as though something strange were happening to you. But rejoice insofar as you are sharing Christ’s sufferings, so that you may also be glad and shout for joy when his glory is revealed. If you are reviled for the name of Christ, you are blessed, because the spirit of glory, which is the Spirit of God, is resting on you. But let none of you suffer as a murderer, a thief, a criminal, or even as a mischief maker. Yet if any of you suffers as a Christian, do not consider it a disgrace, but glorify God because you bear this name. 

-1 Peter 4:12-16

In life, we suffer for various reasons.

If you’re suffering because of your own sin, I can’t help you.

If you’re suffering because you made mischief and it came back to bite you, I can’t help you.

But, if you’re suffering as a Christian – if you’re suffering because you are faithful to God’s will – I can assure you that your suffering is not in vain, but is producing something of far greater eternal significance, and ultimately, joy.

Turn to Hebrews 12.

I want to end with a very important passage of scripture that is, perhaps, the perfect summary of faithfulness.

Therefore, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us also lay aside every weight and the sin that clings so closely, and let us run with perseverance the race that is set before us, looking to Jesus, the pioneer and perfecter of faith, who for the sake of the joy that was set before him endured the cross, disregarding its shame, and has taken his seat at the right hand of the throne of God.

-Hebrews 12:1-3

For the joy set before him he endured the cross, disregarding its shame.

He endured the cross, and he didn’t care about the shame, because he knew his faithfulness to the Father was accomplishing something far greater.

Another translation says “he endured the cross, despising the shame.”

Jesus didn’t enjoy the cross. As a human being, he hated the pain of the cross, yet he endured it anyway. Why? For the joy set before him.

What was the joy set before him?

The joy of knowing that God would raise him from the dead and exalt him as king of kings, to rule the world forever?

Certainly, that promise brought joy.

But I think it was even more than that.

Jesus knew what the cross would accomplish for you and me, and that brought him joy.

Jesus imagined the millions of people throughout the ages who would be saved through the cross, and that brought him great joy!

For the sake of that joy, he endured the cross.

Sometimes, when we’re faithful to do what God has called us to do, we suffer. But even in the suffering, we can still have joy, because we know our faithfulness is accomplishing something greater.

“God, I’m being faithful to what you called me to do, and it’s hard, but I rejoice because if even one person can be saved as a result of my faithfulness, if one person can be healed, if one person can be blessed, it’s all worth it. Thank you, Father!”

God is at work in the world.

Are we faithful to join him in his work?

It won’t always be easy. But it will always be worth it.

Are we faithful to reach people God puts in our path with the gospel and with his love?

Or do we say, “ehhh… I’ll let someone else do it.”

“See I’m just not good at talking to people.”

“Timypaul – he has the gift of an evangelist! I don’t have the gift of an evangelist!”

Hold up a second.

Timypaul may have the gift of an evangelist. He may reach a lot of people with the gospel.

But there are people in my life that I can reach, that he can’t.

And there are people in his life, that he can reach, that I can’t.

And there are people in YOUR life, who YOU can reach, who we can’t!

One person might reach the world with the gospel.

Another person might reach one person.

But in God’s eyes, that one person means the world to God.

There is great rejoicing in heaven over one sinner who repents!

It’s not about how many people you reach. It’s about: Are you FAITHFUL to reach the people God puts in your path?

Remember, God is at work in the world. He invites us to join him in his work.

It’s a privilege to join God in his work.

He doesn’t need us to do the work. He’s God. He’s all powerful. He could snap his fingers and the work would be done.

He chooses to allow us to do the work because he loves us and wants a relationship with us.

God is like a father working on a project, and we are his children – just little children who want to help. The father helps the little boy hold the hammer, helps him hit the nail. The boy misses the nail. Okay, let’s try again. Like a loving and gentle father with a little child, that’s how God is with us.

We mess up. We miss the nail. God is patient, forgiving, gives us another chance. He could probably do the work better without us, but he doesn’t want to. He wants to involve us in his work, because he loves us, and wants a relationship with us.

That’s how God is with us. He’s always faithful to us. Are we faithful to him? 

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Patience is a Virtue: Wait on the LORD

I was honored to preach this sermon at Living Hope Community Church on August 11, 2024.

Have you ever heard the phrase “patience is a virtue”?

The dictionary defines patience as “the capacity to accept or tolerate delay, trouble, or suffering without getting angry or upset.”

Dr. Charles Stanley defines patience as “the will to wait”.

Be still before the LORD, and wait patiently for him; do not fret over those who prosper in their way, over those who carry out evil devices.

Psalm 37:7

I waited patiently for the LORD; he inclined to me and heard my cry.

Psalm 40:1

It is good that one should wait quietly for the salvation of the LORD.

Lamentations 3:26

You don’t hear to many sermons on waiting. We live in a culture that values action. Seize the day. Go out and make something happen.

At best, our culture views patience as a necessary evil. At worst, I would say our culture hates patience.

We live in a culture that devalues patience, and values the exact opposite of patience – convenience. Instant gratification.

We have streaming television “on demand”. I don’t need to wait for a TV show to come on. I demand it now.

Don’t want to spend time cooking? We have Uber Eats, Grubhub, and Doordash so you can get a restaurant quality meal on your doorstep instantly.

We have Amazon Prime next day delivery, and now they even have same day delivery – I don’t even know how they do that, but you just hit a button on your phone, BOOM, same day it’s at your door. You don’t have to wait.

Our culture hates waiting. Studies show that if a website takes five seconds to load, 80% of people will click off of it and go to something else.

We live in a world where we won’t even wait five seconds for a website. Right? We want it now. It feels like agony to wait!

In the Bible, patience is also called “longsuffering”. Think about that. If you want something, but you have to wait to get it, you feel suffering. And if you have to wait a long time, it’s like suffering a long time.

Doesn’t sound very good, does it?

But the Bible says that longsuffering is a virtue.

Rejoice in hope; be patient in affliction; persevere in prayer.

Romans 12:12

Be patient in affliction. Nobody likes affliction. Why should we be patient in affliction?

The Bible shows us that God is a God of redemption. He doesn’t cause all of our suffering, but God is working in the suffering to bring good out of the bad. In other words, when you suffer as a Christian, it’s not in vain.

My brothers and sisters, whenever you face various trials, consider it all joy, because you know that the testing of your faith produces endurance. And let endurance complete its work, so that you may be complete and whole, lacking in nothing.

James 1:2-4

Endurance and patience are related. To be patient, gives you the strength to endure. It gives you the will to wait. And when you build up that endurance, when you have that strength, the Bible says you become complete and whole, lacking nothing.

The one who is impatient suffers because he can’t wait to get what he wants – he’s lacking that thing he desires. But the one who is patient is not lacking, because he’s content through the waiting process.

How do we become more patient? Surely, there are strategies and practices that can help you to build patience in your life. But the good news is, you don’t need to muster up patience by your own strength.

Galatians 5 describes what are called “fruits of the Spirit.” If you believe in Jesus Christ and you follow him as your Lord and Savior, you have the Holy Spirit working in your life. God has given you His Spirit to dwell inside of you and change your life, change your identity, change your very nature. 

When you allow the Holy Spirit to work within you, God will grow virtues in your life just like fruit growing on a tree. They’re called the fruit of the Spirit. And we see these listed here in Galatians 5:22-23.

By contrast, the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, generosity, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. There is no law against such things.

Galatians 5:22-23

Love. Joy. Peace. Patience.

Patience is a fruit of the Spirit.

I love the way the New Living Translations puts this. It says, “the Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our lives: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.”

Did you catch that?

Who produces the fruit of the Spirit in our lives?

God produces the fruit of the Spirit in our lives. God works through the Holy Spirit to grow these virtues in our lives. And that includes patience.

In other words, you don’t need to muster up patience by your own strength. God will grow your patience as you surrender your life to him. That doesn’t mean you do nothing. Patience requires faith on your part. Patience requires courage. Patience requires prayer. A lot of prayer.

But as we do these things, God will grow your patience. It may not always be easy. It may require discipline from God. It may require trials. But rest assured, it’s for your good. 

Sometimes when you pray, God will show you exactly what you need to do, all at once. More often, God will reveal one step. Only after you obediently complete that step, will God reveal the next step. Often, God will reveal his will for your life step by step. We feel frustrated because we just want to know everything God has planned for us, all at once. But God reveals his will slowly. It’s a journey that requires patience. But rest assured, it is for your good.

Sometimes when you pray, God will say yes. Sometimes he will say no. And sometimes he will say, not yet. We feel frustrated because we want answers now. But God is not in a hurry. He’s not in a hurry, but he’s never late. He’s a perfect God, and his timing is always perfect.

God’s will for your life will take time. The best things in life always do. Experiencing God’s will for your life is a lifelong journey, not an instant gratification. It’s not always easy. But rest assured, God’s will is for your good. Romans 8:28 promises us that.

Last Thanksgiving, my wife and I hosted a “friendsgiving” in Rhode Island. For those who don’t know, a “friendsgiving” is like Thanksgiving, but with friends invited, not just family.

For this friendsgiving, we made from scratch meat pies, shrimp, meat skewers, fried rice, jollof rice, beef empanadas, mac and cheese, candied yams, garlic green beans, bread buns, caramel budnt cake, and the star of the show: turkey wings. Not chicken wings. Turkey wings.

This took weeks of preparation. We had to drive up to a butcher in Malta to get the turkey wings because you can’t get turkey wings in Albany. Then the butcher didn’t have them, and I had to drive back a second time on a different day. We drove all the way to Rhode Island, and we made probably four or five trips to grocery stores to get everything we needed, and then we spent an entire day cooking before the friendsgiving event began.

It was incredible. One of the best meals I’ve ever had, and one of the best times with friends. It was a memory that will last a lifetime, and I cannot wait for Friendsgiving 2024 which may happen, if we’re not too burned out from the last one.

Now, we didn’t have to do all that.

We could have just ripped open a microwaveable TV dinner and called it a day.

Why didn’t we do that?

Obviously, that wouldn’t have been as good.

My point with this story is very simple. There will always be an easier, faster, more “convenient” way to do something.

But the best things in life take time. The best things in life require patience.

God grows patience in your life, because God wants the best for you. Patience is for your good.

There are many heroes in the Bible who learned patience.

Noah started building a boat – and a zoo – at least fifty years before the flood came.

Can you imagine? For literally fifty years, he’s got a boat sitting on dry land. No water anywhere in site.

His neighbors must have mocked him: “Hey Noah, why you got a boat on dry land?”

And Noah just had to say, “Rain is coming! It’s not here yet, but it’s coming!”

10 years later. Still no rain. 20 years. Still no rain. 30 years. 40 years later. Waiting. Waiting for what God promised to come to pass.

Sometimes, waiting on God will make you look stupid in the eyes of the world. Because the world doesn’t understand patience. The world doesn’t understand waiting on the LORD.

The world doesn’t understand that what God says will come to pass – not on your timeline, not when you want it to happen – but in God’s perfect timing, it will come to pass.

50 years of waiting. And then, all of sudden, one day, it began to rain. And Noah wasn’t looking too stupid anymore.

Patience.

How about Abraham? Turn to Hebrews chapter 6.

For example, there was God’s promise to Abraham. Since there was no one greater to swear by, God took an oath in his own name, saying:  “I will certainly bless you, and I will multiply your descendants beyond number.” Then Abraham waited patiently, and he received what God had promised.”

Hebrews 6:13-15

When Abraham started out, he was just a guy worshiping idols in Ur of the Chaldeans – also known as Babylon. But one day the one true God spoke to him, and said, “go to the land I will show you.”

Abraham didn’t know where he was going. He didn’t know why he was going. And he didn’t know how long it was gonna take.

We get frustrated because God doesn’t reveal everything all at once. He reveals his will step by step. All Abraham needed to know at first was one thing: go to the land. That’s step one. So Abraham obeys that step. He goes to the land, the land of Canaan, which would become the promised land.

And slowly, one step at a time, over the course of many years, God reveals more steps. God promises this land to Abraham and his descendants forever. There’s only one problem. Abaraham doesn’t have any descendants.

Patience. It’s not until Abraham is one hundred years old and his wife Sarah is ninety years old that Sarah gives birth to the promised son.

90 years old? Patience. God can work a miracle.

And this son of promise was Isaac, who became the father of Jacob, whose name was changed to Israel, and Israel had 12 sons, who became the 12 tribes of Israel.

Now one of those sons was named Joseph. Joseph was Jacob’s favored son, and he received a coat of many colors, a symbol of his father’s favor. Furthermore, Joseph had dreams which symbolized his brothers bowing down and serving him.

Sounds pretty good, right?

But there’s a problem. Joseph’s brothers become jealous. They throw Joseph into a pit, and sell him into slavery. Joseph becomes a slave in Egypt.

Then, to make matters even worse, Joseph is falsely accused of sexual assault, and thrown into prison.

In prison, Joseph meets the king’s cupbearer, who is also in prison, and he successfully interprets his dream. So he says to the cupbearer, “hey, when you get out here, put a good word in for me with the king, see if you can get me out of here.”

But when the cupbearer gets out of prison, he completely forgets about Joseph. So Joseph continues to rot in prison for years.

Finally, the king of Egypt has a dream, and somebody remembers, “hey, wasn’t there that prisoner who could interpret dreams?” So Joseph is brought before the king. And he says, “I can’t interpret dreams. But God can. God will give me the interpretation.”

Sure enough, God gives Joseph the interpretation. The dream means that there will be seven years of plenty, followed by seven years of famine.

The king is so impressed, he puts Joseph in charge of Egypt, and Joseph, knowing that seven years of famine are coming, starts stockpiling food.

Finally, the seven years of famine come. There’s no food in Canaan, where Joseph’s brothers are starving. So they come down to Egypt searching for food.

They hear that there is this incredibly powerful royal advisor to the king who was so wise that he stockpiled food, as if he somehow knew that the famine was coming. And they come before him – not realizing that it’s Joseph – and they bow down before him and beg him to give them some food.

And when Joseph sees his brothers bowing down before him, he is so emotional, he has to leave the room and go cry in the other room where they won’t see him. And he weeps uncontrollably.

And finally, when he reveals himself to his brothers, they embrace each other, and they reconcile, and it’s this beautiful scene that you can read about in Genesis 45.

In that moment, the promise that God made to Joseph in that first dream that he had – all the way back when he was a kid – came to pass. Scholars say it was 22 years between Joseph’s first dream, and it’s fulfillment. 

A 22 year long journey that involved suffering, slavery, imprisonment. But in the end, God’s promise came to pass.

Patience.

Turn to 1 Samuel 10. I want to end with one last record from the Old Testament.

In 1 Samuel 10, Saul is King of Israel. Israel is at war with the Philistines.

The prophet Samuel comes to Saul, and he says to him:

…you shall go down to Gilgal ahead of me; then I will come down to you to present burnt offerings and offer sacrifices of well-being. Seven days you shall wait, until I come to you and show you what you shall do.

1 Samuel 10:8

Now, read this very closely. God is speaking to Saul here through the prophet Samuel, and it’s very clear what God’s instructions are. Who is supposed to offer the burnt offerings? Samuel. What is Saul supposed to do? Wait seven days until Samuel arrives.

Samuel is supposed to make the offering. Saul is supposed to wait for Samuel. This is God’s instruction.

Now turn ahead to chapter 13.

Some Hebrews crossed the Jordan to the land of Gad and Gilead. Saul was still at Gilgal, and all the people followed him trembling. He waited seven days, the time appointed by Samuel, but Samuel did not come to Gilgal, and the people began to slip away from Saul.

1 Samuel 13:7-8

So Saul is waiting, like he’s supposed to. That’s good. But there’s a problem. Samuel is late.

So Saul said, “Bring the burnt offering here to me and the offerings of well-being.” And he offered the burnt offering. 

1 Samuel 13:9

Wait a minute. Saul wasn’t supposed to offer the burnt offering. Samuel was supposed to do it. Saul was supposed to wait for Samuel. But he got impatient. He got tired of waiting, so he went ahead and just did it himself. Something God did not instruct him to do.

As soon as he had finished offering the burnt offering, Samuel arrived, and Saul went out to meet him and salute him. Samuel said, “What have you done?” Saul replied, “When I saw that the people were slipping away from me and that you did not come within the days appointed and that the Philistines were mustering at Michmash, I said, ‘Now the Philistines will come down upon me at Gilgal, and I have not entreated the favor of the LORD,’ so I forced myself and offered the burnt offering.” Samuel said to Saul, “You have done foolishly; you have not kept the commandment of the LORD your God, which he commanded you. The LORD would have established your kingdom over Israel forever, but now your kingdom will not continue; the LORD has sought out a man after his own heart, and the LORD has appointed him to be ruler over his people because you have not kept what the LORD commanded you.”

1 Samuel 13:10-14

Wow. Impatience has consequences.

We need to take impatience seriously. We need to root out impatience from our lives.

Some of you are impatient with your wives.

Some of you are impatient with your kids.

Impatience is not just a bad habit. Impatience can be sin.

Because if patience is a fruit of the Spirit, then impatience is a work of the flesh.

When we are impatient, we are forfeiting a blessing. When we are impatient, we are forfeiting the opportunity to grow in endurance, and become perfect and complete, lacking nothing.

Saul and his descendants could have ruled the kingdom forever.

Instead, the kingdom was taken away from him.

With just a few hours of impatience, Saul forfeited eternal favor.

Impatience can ruin your life.

Saul could have ruled forever. Instead, he killed himself. That’s how Saul died. He killed himself, fleeing in terror from the Philistines.

All because Saul thought he knew better than God, what he needed to do.

See, I don’t care if you think you see a way to do something in your life that God is telling you to wait on. You might think, “It would be so easy to just DO it!” But if God is telling you to wait, then wait.

You might think it would be easy to just get married and hope that God blesses the marriage. But if God is telling you to wait, then wait.

You might think it would be easy to just start the business and hope that God blesses it. But if God is telling you to wait, then wait.

Saul’s kingdom was taken away from him, and it was given to man after God’s own heart – a man named David.

See, when David was just a little boy, the prophet Samuel anointed him and said, “You’re gonna be the next King of Israel.” But Saul held onto the kingdom was long as he possibly could.

David spent 14 years running for his life, hiding in caves because Saul was trying to kill him. All this time, David is supposed to be the King of Israel, but he didn’t actually become king for 14 years.

Patience.

The patience of David. The impatience of Saul.

We sabotage ourselves with our impatience. The blessings of God will come. We receive them through patience. We forfeit them through impatience. The choice is ours.

A pastor I know once said, “don’t bail before the blessings!” Don’t bail out of the boat, don’t run away before the blessings. The blessings will come. The payment required to receive them is patience.

Jesus lived about 33 years before his death, resurrection, and ascension. Of those 33 years, he only did ministry for 3.

30 years of waiting and preparation, for 3 years of ministry.

Patience.

What if God asks you to wait 30 years?

What if he asks you to wait 50 years, like Noah?

What if he asks you to wait 22 years, like Joseph?

Do you have what it takes?

In my life, God asked me to wait 12 years.

For 12 years, I prayed for a wife, every single day.

I prayed for a wife every single day, for 12 years. 

I don’t think I ever missed a day. If I did, I don’t remember it.

If you counted up all the prayers I ever prayed for a wife, it’s over 4,300 prayers.

I prayed over 4,300 times for a wife.

Year after year goes by, I’m like “when is it ever gonna happen?” Some of you remember, I’m even up here preaching a sermon on singleness.

Literally thousands of prayers after thousands of prayers.

And I’m exploding with joy to tell you that, at the right time, God answered. He answered with a woman so far beyond anything I could have expected or imagined – a woman beyond my wildest dreams.

I share this story not to boast about how patient I am, but to boast about how great God is. To my single brothers and sisters, don’t give up. Keep praying. Keep seeking. Keep waiting.

Patience is radical. Patience is counter-cultural. The world doesn’t respect patience. The world doesn’t operate that way.

But Jesus Christ came to turn this world upside down. We need to get on board with his program, the way his kingdom works. It’s not the way the world works!

Pastor Michael Todd once said, “The only thing harder than waiting on God, is wishing you had.”

Waiting on the LORD is hard. It takes patience, endurance, longsuffering. Waiting on the LORD is not easy. It is a difficult journey.

But you know what’s even more difficult? Not waiting on the LORD. Not waiting on the LORD might feel good for a moment, but in the long run, you will look back and wish that you had waited. And that is so much harder.

Let’s choose the better path.

Let’s choose the path of his blessing and favor.

Let’s wait patiently on the LORD.

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Right Here and Right Now

One of my favorite stories in the the gospels is the resurrection of Lazarus from the dead, found in John 11:1-46. Lazarus was the brother of the Mary and Martha whom Jesus visited in Luke 10. Jesus loved Lazarus dearly (John 11:5) and his sisters must have been deeply distraught when Lazarus fell seriously ill (John 11:1). They immediately sent messengers to Jesus, but surprisingly, Jesus did not go immediately to Lazarus. Rather, he remained in the place where he was for two days, and told the messengers, “Lazarus’s sickness will not end in death. No, it happened for the glory of God so that the Son of God will receive glory from this.” (John 11:4).

What good news for Mary and Martha! Jesus Christ had clearly stated that the sickness would not end in death. But only a few verses later, we find a shocking plot twist. Jesus tells his disciples, “Our friend Lazarus has fallen asleep, but now I will go and wake him up.” (John 11:11). The disciples thought he was talking about natural sleep, so they said, “Lord, if he is sleeping, he will soon get better.” (John 11:12). They did not realize that Jesus was talking about the sleep of death. Then Jesus told them plainly, “Lazarus is dead” (John 11:14).

What a shock this must have been for the disciples! I think many of us, familiar with the resurrection of Lazarus, do not realize the full emotional impact of those three words: “Lazarus is dead.” Jesus had clearly said that the sickness would not end in death, and yet, just two days later, he said, “Lazarus is dead.”

Had Jesus failed?

The disciples must have been terribly distressed, so much so that Thomas said, “Let us also go, so that we may die with him” (John 11:16 KJV).

And so they set off for the house of Lazarus, and when they arrived, his body had already been laid in a tomb for four days (John 11:17). The scene there was one of total chaos. The Lord had said that the sickness would not end in death, yet Lazarus was dead. Mary and Martha must have been horribly distraught and confused. Why had Jesus waited two days instead of coming immediately to heal Lazarus? Now it was too late! Martha and Mary both blamed Jesus, saying, “Lord, if only you had been here, my brother would not have died” (John 11:21, 32). Some of those present even mocked Jesus, saying, “This man healed a blind man. Couldn’t he have kept Lazarus from dying?” (John 11:37).

In the midst of all this confusion, John tells us that “Jesus wept” (John 11:35). John does not tell us why Jesus wept, but I believe he wept over their unbelief. Jesus had promised that the sickness would not end in death, yet no one believed him. The one who performed many miracles and healed many people seemingly failed to heal Lazarus before it was too late. They blamed him for foolishly waiting two days instead of coming immediately. They mocked him. They had no faith. Jesus wept.

Yet it was all part of God’s plan. It was God’s will that Jesus wait two days instead of coming to Lazarus immediately. One of the great lessons we can learn from this story is that even when the situations and circumstances of life seem utterly helpless, even in those darkest moments, God is ultimately working all things together for good for His glory (Romans 8:28).

Here is the part of the story I find most fascinating and significant:

John 11:23-26 – Jesus told her, “Your brother will rise again.” “Yes,” Martha said, “he will rise when everyone else rises, at the last day.” Jesus told her, “I am the resurrection and the life. Anyone who believes in me will live, even after dying. Everyone who lives in me and believes in me will never ever die. Do you believe this, Martha?”

Contrast the doubt of Martha with the faith of Abraham. Abraham, when tested by God, was willing to offer up his son Isaac, because God had promised to make a great nation through Isaac. Abraham knew that God could not break his promise (Numbers 23:19) and therefore, Abraham believed that even if Isaac died, God would be faithful to raise Isaac from the dead (Hebrews 11:19).

Martha had also received a promise – that Lazarus’ sickness would not end in death. This means that even if Lazarus died, his death would not be the end. Jesus Christ would be faithful to raise Lazarus from the dead, “so that the Son of God will receive glory” (John 11:4). Martha believed that everyone who has ever died will be raised at the end of the age (Revelation 20:13), but she had lost hope in the power of Christ in the here and now. Before her stood the Son of God who possesses all power in heaven and on earth (Matthew 28:18) even the power to raise Lazarus from the sleep of death immediately. Jesus had said, “I will go and wake him up” (John 11:11). But instead, Martha was waiting for the end of the age.

Martha put her faith in a future event, instead of in the person of Christ.

Christ’s response to Martha is one of my favorite sayings of Jesus: “I am the resurrection and the life.” Martha had put her faith in her theological understanding of the future resurrection, without realizing that Jesus Christ IS himself the resurrection. He IS the life-giving spirit (1 Corinthians 15:45) and the fountain of living water (John 4) that heals us today (Isaiah 53:5). Martha had faith in the Kingdom coming in the future, but no faith that the King standing before her could work a miracle in the present!

When this evil age comes to an end, there will be established a Kingdom on the earth where all who are made righteous in Christ will be raised from the dead to live with God forever (Revelation 21). But the Kingdom of God is not only our future hope, but also our present hope as well. Jesus is already King – his victory has already been won, his throne has already been established. From the right hand of God, he is ruling and shepherding his global Body and he’s ready to work mighty miracles if we would turn to him in faith. Thus, Jesus says to us, “the Kingdom of God is already among you” (Luke 17:21).

We may have a great understanding of what Jesus accomplished, historically speaking.

But do we know what he is accomplishing in our lives right here and right now?

We may have a great understanding of Jesus, theologically speaking.

But do we know who he is, personally?

Brother Yun is a Chinese Christian evangelist who founded many underground churches in China and was imprisoned and tortured for his faith. In his book The Heavenly Man, he describes his miraculous escape from Zhèngzhōu Maximum-Security Prison.

According to Yun’s own account, each door opened before him and he heard the voice of Jesus instruct him to walk out of the prison. At the risk of being shot to death by the guards keeping watch from the towers, he obeyed the voice of Christ and walked out through the front gate. Miraculously, no one saw him, as if he had become invisible. He is the only prisoner in history to have escaped from that prison.

Brother Yun makes an insightful observation on the story of Lazarus on pages 74-75 of his book Living Water: 

When Jesus informed Martha that he had come to raise Lazarus from the dead, Martha resorted to her theological knowledge by saying, “I know that he will rise again in the resurrection on the last day” (John 11:24). This is a chief attribute of Christians who only know Jesus from a theological viewpoint. They know about the history of God’s workings with humankind, and they know that in the future God will make everything right. But they do not know Jesus in the here and now. Jesus has become a historical and a future figure, but not a present figure in their daily lives. Many churches are spiritually dead today because they keep Jesus at a “safe distance” while they control their own lives and make their own plans. Until you realize that Jesus Christ wants to be a major part of everything you do, you will not see revival. Until He is rightfully enthroned as King of Kings and Lord of Lords, your plans will continue to be frustrated and you will see little true blessing of heaven on your activities.

We too often intellectualize Jesus into a mere historical figure. It’s easy to think of him as the one who died for our sins, and will come again to rule the world, yet completely forget about the work he is accomplishing right here and right now in our 21st century lives.

I don’t want to treat Jesus as merely a historical figure or settle for merely knowing about him.

I want to know him personally, right here and right now. I want to have a relationship with him!

Most of all, I want to see his power manifested in my life. I want to hear his voice daily and follow his direction in my life. As Jesus said in John 10:27, “My sheep listen to my voice; I know them, and they follow me.

Do you know Jesus… or do you only know about him?

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He Must Become Greater

 

The message of the Bible is all about Jesus Christ. He’s in every book of the Bible. Only when we center our focus on Christ do we see the spiritual meaning of biblical events. The death, burial, and resurrection of Jesus Christ is the hinge upon which all of scripture swings. We see it foreshadowed in the bread and wine offered by the high priest Melchizedek (Genesis 14), in Abraham’s willingness to sacrifice his son of promise (Genesis 22), in the story of Joseph (Genesis 37-50) and Jonah (Jonah 1-4), and in Moses’ raising up of the snake in the wilderness (Numbers 21, John 3:14). When we fix our eyes on Christ, we see him on almost every page.

As powerful as the ministry of John the Baptist was, he knew he was insignificant compared to the one who was coming after him – Jesus the Messiah:

John 3:27-30 – John replied, “No one can receive anything unless God gives it from heaven. You yourselves know how plainly I told you, ‘I am not the Messiah. I am only here to prepare the way for him.’ It is the bridegroom who marries the bride, and the best man is simply glad to stand with him and hear his vows. Therefore, I am filled with joy at his success. He must become greater and greater, and I must become less and less.

He must become greater and greater, and I must become less and less. This should be the desire of our hearts today. Yet our human tendency is always to take our focus off of Christ and onto ourselves. When we look honestly at ourselves, we realize how hopelessly inadequate we are. By ourselves, we are completely incapable of serving God as he deserves. In and of ourselves, we are incapable of holiness and we consistently fail to please God. Left in our own sinful condition, we cannot enter God’s holy presence. When our focus is on ourselves – on our own weakness, sinfulness, and insufficiency – we cannot help but feel like failures.

Fortunately, our faith is not about us… it’s all about Jesus. We are sinners, but Jesus Christ is sinless. We were separated from God by sin, but Jesus Christ bridged the gap between God and man. We could not atone for our sin, but Jesus Christ paid the price in full when he died on the cross.

When we put our focus on Christ instead of on ourselves, our whole perspective changes. By ourselves, we are slaves of sin… but in Christ, we have victory over sin. By ourselves, we are children of wrath bound for destruction… but in Christ, we have the hope of eternal life. By ourselves, we are separated from God by sin… but in Christ, we can come boldly before the presence of God, being cleansed of all sin not by our own works but by his holiness.

Jesus says “I am the vine; you are the branches. Those who remain in me, and I in them, will produce much fruit. For apart from me you can do nothing.” (John 15:5). Our faith must be centered on Jesus Christ alone. Apart from him, we can do nothing.

One of my favorite stories in the gospels is when Peter walked on water in Matthew 14:22-33. The fact that Jesus walked on water is amazing, but what really amazes me the most is that Peter walked on water! He had the incredible, bold faith to say to Jesus, “Lord, if it’s really you, tell me to come to you, walking on the water” (Matthew 14:28). And then, the awesome faith to step out of the boat and onto the water!

As long as Peter kept his eyes fixed on Jesus Christ, he could walk on top of the water. But as soon as the wind and waves broke his concentration on Christ, Peter began to sink. This story symbolizes the walk of every believer. Like Peter walking on water, we must keep our focus on Christ each and every day. As soon as we allow the troubles of this world or even our own human plans to distract us from Christ, we begin drowning in the mire of this world. Hebrews puts it this way:

Hebrews 12:1-2 – Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a huge crowd of witnesses to the life of faith, let us strip off every weight that slows us down, especially the sin that so easily trips us up. And let us run with endurance the race God has set before us. We do this by keeping our eyes on Jesus, the champion who initiates and perfects our faith. Because of the joy awaiting him, he endured the cross, disregarding its shame. Now he is seated in the place of honor beside God’s throne.

The desire of my heart is for Jesus to increase in my life, and for myself to decrease. As Paul wrote in Galatians 2:20, “My old self has been crucified with Christ. It is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me. So I live in this earthly body by trusting in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me.”

When people look at my life, I want them to see less of me, and more of Christ. As I walk with Christ day by day and endeavor to follow him, I want his will and his power to be manifested in my life. To really be followers of Christ, we must make him Lord of our lives and keep our focus upon him.

He must become greater. We must become less.

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